“For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body” (Ephesians 5:23).

Sinful man uses order to lord it over others.  God uses order to keep things in harmony.  Do not take the things of the Lord and pervert them but use them as they have been created to be used.  The man is the head.  Thus says the Lord.  The world says we are all the same and each to his own.  If you decide to do this, so be it.  If the Lord decides, then walk in His counsel and learn what this means.  The man is to be the tie breaker, that’s what headship means.  No more, no less.

You have set everything in its course.  Those in this world continue in their rebellion against You and the order You have set.  Teach me more of Your order Lord in order that I would learn how life was meant to be lived.  Guide me according to Your precepts so that I would now and always look to You for wisdom.  Let me be in the order You have set and help me live in the way You intend.

Lord, the world hates Your order.  All around me I see where You are defied.  Lead me into humility, that place where I simply obey all that You command.  Guide me Lord so that where I am to be subject, I willingly follow.  Where I am to lead, help me to do so in love and with humility.  In all things, lead me to follow the example You have set that I may become like You in every way.  Amen.

“Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord” (Ephesians 5:22).

Such an unpopular sentiment in our day.  This is not permission to put the little lady in her place.  The following verses make that clear.  Therefore, it is not what the world says.  The Lord is making a point in these passages about reliance and order in our lives, built upon the foundation of the family.  We all could learn the lesson of what it means to be subject.  The opposite is pride and self-will.

Lord You created me and I did not create You.  I am reliant upon You and You are not reliant upon me.  Guide me, O Lord, in the way of truth so that I would be led by You.  Guide me to see that You have created us with a right order in mind.  Lead me in that order, Lord, so that I would be guided by You and the law You have set in place.  Guide me Lord in the way of truth in order that I may walk in that way.

Lord Jesus, You are the truth.  You are the One who has set the course for humanity.  Set the course for me this day so that I may walk in the truth of You.  Lead me according to the Father’s will to seek what is right and true.  Keep me close to You Lord in order that I would learn to subject myself to You as You subjected Yourself to the Father for our sake.  Let me not cling to my life, but to You, the source of all life.  Amen.

“Always giving thanks for all things in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ to God, even the Father; and be subject to one another in the fear of Christ” (Ephesians 5:20-21).

Always giving thanks.  In good times, yes, this is easy.  But giving thanks at all times, even those you consider bad?  Who is at work in you?  Is not the Lord the One who will bring all things together for good according to His purpose? Yes!  Learn to give thanks in all situations knowing that the Lord is at work in you, doing that which is according to His will and good pleasure.

Lord, teach me to relax.  In the fear of You, which is the beginning of wisdom, yes, but not timid or afraid.  Lead me in the direction You know I need to go and help me move in that direction.  Guide me, O Lord, in order that I would not walk in the ways of the world, but in the way of Christ my Savior.  Help me to more clearly understand what this means.  Then, help me to do what You tell me to do.

Lord Jesus, You have told us to go into the world and where we are received, stay.  You have said that where we are rejected, we are to move on.  Guide me Lord in the way You would have me go so that I might now and always be led by You.  Let me not look to myself or others, but always to You so that I may be guided by You alone.  Help me to help others to do what You know we need to do.  Amen.

“And do not get drunk with wine, for that is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit, speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody with your heart to the Lord” (Ephesians 5:18-19)

For what do you live and what are the things you want to do?  The world wants to feel good.  Feelings are fine, but they are fleeting.  Instead, focus upon what the Lord has in mind and do the things that are right and good.  A glass of wine for the stomach, but not a bottle to get drunk.  Yes, you feel, but do not live for those feelings.  Live the good life to which You have been called through Christ.

Lord, teach me temperance.  I do not have balance and I do not always even know what balance is.  Teach me how to live a balanced life, neither stern, nor dissipated.  Guide me to do what is right in Your sight, living as You have created life to be lived.  Teach me how to rejoice in You and live the good life for which You have called me.  In all things, let me look to You as my source and comfort.

Lord Jesus, You lived life in full while here.  You showed a balance to which You call us to live.  Teach me that balance so that I would learn from You how to live in this mixed up world.  Guide me according to Your goodness to live each day as it comes, giving praise to You and doing what is right in the Father’s eyes.  Through all that comes this day, let praise and thanks be in my heart and on my lips.  Amen.

“So then do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is” (Ephesians 5:17).

Many say they follow You, Lord.  Whether they really do or do not, I do not know.  The one I do know about is myself.  Lead me into deeper understanding so that I would not be foolish, but wise about the life You have given me through grace.  Guide me to live into the new life and leave behind the ways that lead to destruction.  Grant me wisdom to know the difference between the two.

Almighty Father, You have created us to worship You in spirit and truth.  Guide my heart so that it would always be close to You.  Lead me in the way of salvation in order that I would forever hold fast to the Word You have revealed.  Let me not be caught up in the foolishness of this world, but guided be by Your spirit into the way of everlasting life.  Teach me how to worship You, Lord.

Thank You, Lord, for sending Your Spirit to keep me from being foolish.  Help me to see the simple things that I can do to preserve the rule of grace in my life.  Let me not seek excuses to sin; but empower me to find ways to serve.  Let me not focus upon myself, but upon You, the One who makes all life possible.  Guide me in the way You would have me go and then lead me in that way.  Amen.

“Therefore be careful how you walk, not as unwise men but as wise, making the most of your time, because the days are evil” (Ephesians 5:15-16).

How often do people go through the motions and go with the flow.  We are called to follow Christ, which means going against the flow of culture.  Do not be conformed to this world, but be renewed in your mind in Christ so that you would be conformed to His image.  He will give you the wisdom you need.  He will guide you in all of your ways.  Make the most of these things and come into His presence and purpose.

Lord, I do go along to get along.  I do not fight the good fight, but fight against what You have established.  Lord, keep me from doing things in the way of the world.  Let me see where I am not being conformed to You, but to this world.  Teach me not so much to be a contrarian, but to hold fast to what is noble and true.  Let me not be one who compromises the truth.  Help me to see these things clearly.

Lord Jesus, You have come that we may have life and have it abundantly.  You have come that by grace we would be saved from the wickedness of this world.  Let me not fall back into the pit but come into Your power and live life as it is meant to be lived.  Guide me, O Lord, in the way of truth which You have established and grant wisdom so that I may discern which way to go each step of the way.  Amen.

“But all things become visible when they are exposed by the light, for everything that becomes visible is light.  For this reason it says, “Awake, sleeper, And arise from the dead, And Christ will shine on you” (Ephesians 5:13-14).

In Jesus is light and that light is the light of men.  The light shines in the darkness and the darkness cannot overcome it.  Live your life as though the world was watching it.  This is not to feed your ego, as if you had something to boast about, but about learning how to faithful.  It is to both keep you humble and on the narrow path.  Live a life that is pleasing to the Lord at all times knowing that He indeed does know and see all.

Lord, let me neither be afraid, nor indifferent about these things.  Guide me in the way of salvation so that I would hold fast to the truth of Your presence and purpose.  You have come to save as many as believe so that we might have everlasting life.  Lead me in that life Lord so that I would humbly walk with You each and every day.  Guide my footsteps in order that I may be consistent in this gift of faith that You have given me.

Lord Jesus, You know all that is needed.  Before I was born, You provided for my salvation.  You have given me all that I need to walk a life of faith.  Guide me in that walk so that I may be consistent always, living out this faith which You have given me.  Help me to live in season and out of season according to Your Word.  In all things, may I always look to You, my Rock and my Redeemer.  Amen.

“Do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them; for it is disgraceful even to speak of the things which are done by them in secret” (Ephesians 5:11-12).

Live your life such that if it were all filmed there would be nothing for which you would need to be ashamed.  This is not seeking to modify your behavior.   Too many promote that.  It is seeking for you to be like Christ in thought, word, and deed.  Let your life be an open book and do not hinder what the Holy Spirit is doing in You.  You have been called through Your baptism to become whom God is making you to be. Have an attitude of gratitude!

Lord, You know all.  You know what You are doing and You have given me eyes to see and ears to hear.  Lead me, O Lord, in the way of life in order that I would walk with You and be led into the obedience to which I have been called.  Help me to be steadfast in the living of this life You have given me.  Guide me to live out my calling according to Your will.

Lord Jesus, You have told us that You would lead the way.  You are not only the example of the godly life, but by Your grace, the only way we can live into the godly life.  Lead me today, Lord Jesus, in the way I need to go.  Guide me by Your Spirit to become whom You are leading me to be so that I would be conformed to Your image.  Through all things, help me to be intentional about the kind of life I am living.  Amen.

“(For the fruit of the Light consists in all goodness and righteousness and truth), trying to learn what is pleasing to the Lord” (Ephesians 5:9).

Try to learn what is pleasing to the Lord.  This is at the heart of learning obedience.  Even in this statement, there is grace, for it is in the pursuit that the reality comes.  Do not be one who tries to harmonize the wickedness of this world, nor apologize for the goodness of the Lord, but one who lives into the life for which you have been called through grace.  In Him alone is life and liberty.

Lord, You have said that if I abide in You, I will bear fruit.  Let me understand more fully the fruit You are causing to grow in me so that I would do nothing that hinders Your work in me.  The world hates You and therefore me, but You are greater.  Let Your will flourish in all I say and do in order that I would learn and do what is pleasing in Your sight.  Lord, be the One who is leading my life.

Lord Jesus, You have come to establish new management in my life.  Let me step into the background so that You would indeed be the One who leads me in all my ways.  Let me do as You would do.  Let me do as You would have me do.  Guide me to learn obedience and do those things which are pleasing in the Father’s sight.  Through all that happens, grow in me Your likeness, Lord Jesus.  Amen.

“Therefore do not be partakers with them; for you were formerly darkness, but now you are Light in the Lord; walk as children of Light” (Ephesians 5:7-8)

The Word is the Light of the world, shining in the darkness.  Are you connected with Jesus?  Do you follow Him, or the world.  Scripture separates the two and they are distinct.  They are meant to be.  Too many seem to straddle a line between the Word and the world and want to harmonize them, Good and evil cannot be harmonized.  Either you are of this world or else in Christ, these are the two possibilities.

Lord, help me to see the distinction so that I may not try and live my life sitting on a fence.  Guide me according to Your purpose to live into the life to which You have called me in order that I may be guided by You and the life You have given me through grace.  Let me not be one who compromises the truth, but one who humbly comes to You as Yours, purchased by Your grace.

Lord Jesus, You have redeemed me at the cost of Your life.  You have told us that one who turns back after setting their hand to the plow is unworthy of salvation.  Keep me in the grace You have given me to become whom You are making me to be.  Lead me by Your Spirit so that I may now and always live into the life of faith set before me and not live as the world lives.  Amen.